On being unbelievably ratty…

I’ve been really high manic again for three days and it’s wearing me out.

I’ve baked bread and scones, I’ve done laundry, I’ve hoovered every day (unheard of) and walked for miles and it’s all taking it’s toll.

When I have a long cycle through a very high mania I tend to have a build up over a couple of days until it all explodes into an unbelievably ratty mood. I am not pleasant to have around at these times.

I knew the mania was building up at the weekend because I started shifting furniture about and had a total disregard for what I was doing to my body. I’m not 27 anymore no matter how many times I claim to be and I’m always covered in bruises or clutching my back or both. By the end of Saturday I’d dismantled a chair (with the help of a hungover neighbour) and filled three bin bags of stuff that I’d been meaning to get rid of for ages. I couldn’t sleep on Saturday night because my mind was racing.

On Sunday there was more of the same only in the baking department and with laundry. I couldn’t seem to stop doing either and both at the same time which was far too much even for a mega manic me. By this time my words were becoming muddled and I was not making any sense. It’s one thing to talk a million miles an hour but when those words come out in a jumble because your brain works faster than your mouth it’s a pain in the arse.

Yesterday was a day of everything that needed to be done (including a walk with my dog, baking a batch of bread, hoovering, bath and hair wash) before Ogden got picked up at 11.00 for his afternoon with the pet sitter. At this point I should have taken a couple of Valium and slept the afternoon away but I’m manic so I don’t listen to common sense.

I went into town and found that the exhibition I was planning to see was £5 to get in and I refuse to spend money to go into museums or places of worship. I then decided that instead I would walk over to the cathedral to take a few photos and have a sandwich in the coffee shop except that it was a graduation day so there was nobody allowed in except over-excited students and their over-dressed parents.

By then I was getting a bit short in temper.

I picked Ogden up and on the way home a man bent down and almost kicked my dog in the face. I swore not quite under my breath and told him off. This man then justified his behaviour of not taking care about what was going on around him because his child was the most important thing not just in his world but everybody else’s too and basically my dog was way down the list of consideration. Of course I let rip.

When I let rip I am accused of being rude, bitter, over the top or all those and some more. I’m actually not being rude intentionally but I am inadequately expressing an irritation that boils over into anger that, because I’m manic, I have difficulty in controlling it. Yes, sometimes it does come across as pure rudeness but other times it very definitely comes across as big anger. I am harmless though and I’d never get physically violent.

I am not bitter – that’s an emotion or mood or whatever you want to call it projected upon me. The unfortunate recipient thinks,”If that was me then it would because I was bitter.” One woman told me God loved me and that she’d pray for me after almost knocking me down as she drove across a pavement to park on it. Bitter – no, rude – yes.

Yes it is over the top because mania is about being over the top. Mania isn’t about being sedate and controlled, it isn’t about being moderate and dignified and it certainly isn’t about being restrained.

So today I’m feeling sorry for the bloke that I verbally lashed out at but still angry at him for almost hurting my dog then  dismissing him as though he didn’t count and I’m sat here wishing I could live in a wood with my animals for company and just never talk to anybody ever again except my family and my closest friends. In the meantime I’m keeping the list of people I need to speak to very short and counting to a million whenever somebody has the misfortune to irritate me…